Finding out you’re pregnant while living on campus can feel intimidating.
You may be wondering how you’ll continue your classes, what your roommate will think, whether your parents will find out, or if you’ll have to leave school altogether. It may feel like your future is suddenly uncertain.
If you’re in this situation, it’s important to know that an unexpected pregnancy doesn’t mean your education has to end, and you don’t have to make a rushed decision because you’re living away from home.
The first step is understanding your pregnancy and learning about the resources and options available to you. Read on to learn steps you can take, or contact Arise Center for Women to find a safe space to talk and get answers.
Confirm Your Pregnancy and Learn About Your Health
If you’ve taken a home pregnancy test and received a positive result, your next step should be to schedule an ultrasound.
An ultrasound provides important medical information that a home pregnancy test cannot. It can determine:
- Whether the pregnancy is located inside the uterus.
- Whether the pregnancy is viable, meaning you haven’t miscarried.
- Approximately how far along you are.
This information is important for protecting your health. For example, an ultrasound can rule out conditions such as an ectopic pregnancy, which often requires immediate medical treatment.
Know That You Have More Options Than You May Think
It’s easy to feel like an unexpected pregnancy means you have to choose between your education and your baby. In reality, many students continue their education while pregnant or after becoming parents.
As you consider your options, take time to learn about each one.
If you’re thinking about parenting, ask what resources are available through your school and community. Some colleges offer accommodations for pregnant students, counseling services, childcare resources, or connections to local organizations that support student parents.
If you don’t feel ready to parent, adoption is another option to consider. Today’s adoption process gives birth mothers the opportunity to make many of the important decisions, including choosing the adoptive family and deciding how much contact they’d like after placement.
No matter what you’re considering, don’t assume you have only one path forward. Learning about all of your options can help you make a decision that’s based on facts rather than fear.
Find Someone You Trust to Talk Through Your Decision
When you’re living on campus, it’s easy to feel like you’re carrying this secret by yourself.
You may not know who to tell or worry about how the people in your life will respond. While those fears are understandable, you don’t have to make this decision alone.
Consider talking with someone you trust, such as a parent, family member, close friend, mentor, pastor, counselor, or healthcare professional at our center. Choose someone who will listen to your concerns, answer your questions honestly, and help you think through your options without pressuring you toward one decision.
As you process your situation, ask yourself:
- What do I truly want?
- Am I making this decision because it aligns with my values and goals?
- Have I taken enough time to understand all of my options?
And please know this: If you want to parent while attending college, there are federal laws in place to protect your rights and ensure you have what you need to succeed.
Find Compassionate Support at Arise Center for Women
If you’re pregnant and living on campus, Arise Center for Women is here to help.
We offer free, confidential pregnancy testing and free limited obstetrical ultrasounds for qualifying patients, along with compassionate support as you explore your pregnancy options. Our caring team can answer your questions, provide accurate information, and connect you with resources that may help you continue your education while planning for your future.
You don’t have to navigate this pregnancy alone. Contact Arise Center for Women today to schedule your confidential appointment. We’re here for you.
